How to Make Promises with Integrity
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It came to my attention yesterday that occassionally I used to make promises that my heart really wasn’t into. As a result, I would be late, or the promises would take much longer to accomplish. Then I realized that if my heart is God’s megaphone, why am I making promises that are inconsistent with my purpose or my heart? Mostly out of obligation, not wanting people to judge me, and responsibility. Fortunately, I generally don’t make promises that way anymore.
True integrity means that the words that come out of your mouth match the voice of your heart. Then and only then will the actions you take always be consistent with your promises.
If someone makes a promise to you and does not deliver, it’s not because they deliberately lied. It’s because they promised something not from their heart but from their sense of obligation, responsibility, not wanting to look bad, or just wanting you to be happy. If they are struggling with fulfilling on the promise, I suggest you let them off the hook and give them permission to re-promise based on what their heart says. The result will be much more fulfilling for both of you.
It would be so much simpler if we all committed to things from a place of integrity to the heart, not the culture, mind, or history. We would all trust ourselves and each other so much more. Today, come from your heart, not your head—and allow others in your life to do the same. Try it, you’ll like it.
Jennifer Hough
