Difference of Opinion About What Is Best
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I’ve been busy teaching two Get Out of Your Own Way™ courses, and I am just feeling so blessed. It truly is a privilege to help people wake up to their magnificence and just radiate who they really are. Which brings me to my point…
My Get Out of Your Own Way™ course really is for the people who don’t want to read or talk about their dreams anymore; they are ready to soar, to live in full connection and transcend all self-sabotage. Have you noticed that some people aren’t ready yet though?
There are many paths to well-being. This week I talked with a wonderful woman who wanted to help her Mom, who is in some serious pain. The issue is that this woman had ideas about what her mother should do (with alternative health and all sorts of visits to RMT’s and chiros). But her mother was wanting to take medications and put up with a certain level of suffering, which the woman did not accept as ok. The woman got more and more frustrated that her Mom would not do things her way.
Isn’t it great to know that you are always right? Problems come when you try to be right for another person. You have your Divine Connection and they have theirs. The best way to help another is to guide them to what their heart says—not to what your heart says. Or say nothing; at least then, they can hear.
When someone is not receiving what you are giving, it’s not because they are “daft.” It’s because you are not giving what they are willing to receive! Love, hugs, laughter, and drives to the doctor are what her Mom was open to receive. So for her Mom, Doctor + Unconditional Love = Healing. And for the daughter, Alternative Health + Freedom = Healing. Who is right? Both of them.
It is not your job to determine what someone else needs (unless they ask, but even then, give them the right to say no). Like you, others have their own connection to Divine Wisdom. Just because one way worked for you doesn’t mean another way can’t work perfectly well for someone else. How can someone else (including your children) listen to their own guidance if they are being bombarded with someone elses? Just a thought.
If you’re on the receiving end of someone trying to give you unsolicited advice, simply smile and thank them so very much for caring about you. Then allow your heart to point the way. Be kind, as you are teaching them that you are right for you!
Jennifer Hough
