Don’t Take It Personally
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Sometimes you might not be on the same page as another person. If you think they aren’t liking you, you might get upset. Really, however, they are upset because they do love you; they just haven’t found a way to communicate what they’re trying to say in a way that demonstrates that.
Isn’t that refreshing? That’s why they are upset—because they want to be connected, and they perceive they can’t be!
Love is a fundamental human need. Upset only happens when someone who wants to love you feels they can’t… but it’s not because they don’t.
When someone around you is struggling to remember why they like you or love you, that’s your cue to really listen to what they are saying. Are they actually saying something awful about you? How much are you reading into it? Are you taking it personally?
If you were to ask their Higher Self what they are trying to communicate, what would their Higher Self say? Usually it’s one of these: “I want to feel safe” or “I want to feel validated” or “I can’t see any other way. Can you help me?”
It’s never about you, my friend, when someone else is upset.
Taking things personally is one of the issues I see most often. When you are upset, it does not have to do with anyone else either. Upset (like happiness) is a choice. It depends on how you look at things. When another is upset around you, ask yourself, Can I make them feel safer? Can I validate them? Can I softly help them see another way?
If you can’t, it’s better to send them good vibes from afar until they are open to receive.
Jennifer Hough
