What Do You Want from Your Relationships?
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Most people think that how someone treats them is simply how that other person is, and then they base their beliefs about that person on that. It’s actually the other way around: your vibration about someone is what creates how that person is with you. That means that even though your brother, spouse, sister, mother, father, friend, colleague or boss may not physically hear you when you talk about them, what you say does create exactly what your future interactions will look like.
We all have some people in our lives who maybe don’t feel as good to be around as others, right? Here are two points to think about, from the perspective of Law of Attraction:
1. Follow your path of bliss, do what you love, find ways to feel good and appreciate, and the people whose personalities don’t jive with that level of joy just won’t hang around you – as long as you don’t give them any energy. The minute you start complaining or trying to change them, they will be around more.
2. Sometimes someone shows up and is just grumpy/irritable/nasty/icky from the start. Everyone has the potential to shine, and there is at least one person who loves any one person. So… that means there are lovable aspects of that person’s personality you could focus on, to create a relationship that feels good. Focus on what you DO WANT from your friend – instead of what you don’t like.
A related thought: If you react to circumstances, it will always seem hard. If you start imagining your circumstances and creating them ahead of time, it will be easy.
Jennifer Hough
